Here’s some bachelorette party ideas. It used to be that guys got strippers at a wild bachelor party and women got cake and tea at a shower. But Brides to be aren’t putting up with unequal treatment any more. They’re demanding their turn at the party. So, here’s some bachelorette party ideas for women demanding equal fun.
Some bachelorette party ideas are on the wild side, comparable to the traditional bachelor events. Others are more in the nature of getting together with the girls for bonding time before a woman becomes a wife.
Wild events usually involve dressing in short skirts, going to a bar, and/or having a stripper come in. If you have a Chippendale’s or Thunder from Down Under event in your town, these can be great places to take a bride who wants a walk on the wild side.
A scavenger hunt for the bride can spark some memorable moments. Ask her to do things like kiss a guy with the groom’s name, ask for a blow job shot at the bar, and get a guy’s underwear can be fun for the adventurous bride.
If you are looking for Bachelorette party ideas that you can do at home, make a main dish out of penis pasta (yes, it does exist) and follow it with adult fortune cookies for desert.
More mild ideas include doing a spa day, a make up party, or going to a play or concert. While these fall more into the traditional “shower” category of events, a more traditional bride might feel more comfortable doing these things.
Another one of my favorite home bachelorette party ideas is to hire a psychic and a tarot card reader. Let her predict the future of the bride’s marriage and whether any of her friends will find true love.
Bachelorette party ideas that involve gambling can be a lot of fun. Go to a local casino or even the race track. Lose your inhibitions and lose (or win) some money.
Go to a memorable bar. This can be anything from a disco bar (yes they still exist), a country line dancing place (he’s not likely to go with her later), or even karaoke.
Call a improv comedy company ahead of time and book a table on the front row. Let them know you’re bringing a bride to be and there should be a lot of funny moments.
If the group can afford it, consider taking the bachelorette party on the road. Go on a Sex and the City tour in New York. Take her to Las Vegas for a final fling with the girls. Or, if thereís some place that you know she likes but her husband to be hates (for instance, a cruise to the Bahamas that she finds interesting and he finds boring), give her “one last chance” to go. Remember though that the group should ante up for the Bride’s share. It’s her party and she doesn’t have to pay for it.
I hope I’ve given you some bachelorette party ideas that can help you make a bride’s last days as a single woman memorable.
Moving Past Betrayal
One of the things that destroy relationships the fastest is when one of the partners betrays the other one. This is done through cheating, but it can also happen because of something else that a partner does when they know full well that in doing so; they run the risk of losing their relationship. Betrayal is not always something that couples can move past. That’s why it’s best to avoid it completely.
However, if your partner has betrayed you in the most unthinkable way, it’s going to be up to you as to how you handle it. Many men cheat on their partners and are immediately contrite once they’re caught. They promise the earth, moon and stars to their partners that they love only them and that the cheating will never happen again. In spite of all the promises, how will you ever be able to trust them again?
That becomes the biggest part of the problem. No one wants to live the rest of their life with someone they can’t trust. It’s simply not worth all of the stress and strain that you’ll undergo if you can’t bring yourself to believe your partner. Once trust is broken, it may be destroyed irreparably, and if that’s the case, there’s really no way to maintain a healthy relationship.
Whether or not you decide to stay with the partner that betrayed you, it’s still important that you see a counselor of sorts. You’ll most likely be dealing with all sorts of feelings such as anger, hurt, and just sadness. These can combine to become unbearable and you’ll need someone to help you sort through them all.
Something else that most people need to know is why their partners cheated on them. Women will be positive that they did everything they knew to keep the relationship a good and happy one. Yet, their partners found someone that they felt was worth risking all of that for.
Keep in mind that women of all types get cheated on. Some of the most beautiful women in the world are cheated on by their partners. Such women like Sandra Bullock and Elin Nordegren that any man would be thrilled to have at their side were cheated on by their famous spouses. Whatís surprising is the type of women that they chose to cheat with. While both of these women are stunningly beautiful, their spouses gravitated towards cheaper, sluttier women that were nowhere close to being as lovely as their wives. So, donít get caught up in the mindset of that you’re not pretty enough.
There are many ways that you can move past your betrayal, but it may not come with your relationship intact. If you feel that you can never trust your partner again, it’s time to walk away. Do whatever it takes to heal yourself and take the time to regain your composure. You’ll know when it’s time to get back out there and try again. Not all men are pond scum and that’s what you need to remember. Give the good ones a chance to offer you hope for a great relationship the next time around.